If You Having Difficulties In Dealing With Your Boss Then Try These Methods To Reduce Your Stress.

Why Company Heads Have Rude Behaviour?

The rude behavior of your boss can depend on various reasons. Sometimes it can be about attitude. If it is about attitude, you must be more aware because it will not be easy to handle a person like that. Another idea we can have is that it may be because of family matters. These types of cases can handle because we can change the mindset of such types easily.

There is another reason involved in the above the higher management pressure. Think your boss is a calm and cool person and if he turns the color with a call from higher management. Then that anger is total because the pressure came down from the higher level. Most of the commandings have this issue. The pressure from the above goes down step by step. So these reasons can affect the rude behavior of a person.

Why You Have To Work With Such A Person?

In the corporate world own a Job is the dream of a person. I do not mention much about self-employment. As per the records of ILO (International Labour Organization), 3 billion people live in the world are employed. So simply you own a Job because you need money to survive. The company you work for pays you for the tasks you do. So the truth is most of you do a job because you need money. Then why do you need to depend on one person’s behavior? You can make goals for your career and always stay connected with the goal. Then you do not want to pay much attention to others’ behavior.

Every time you get angry, you can memorize that “I have a salary, and I want that to fulfill my needs.” Calm down for a while and restart your works with a fresh mind. If you are not paying much attention to others’ behavior, you will find it easy to pay your attention to work. So the answer to the question above is money. You have to tolerate such a person because of the money you receive. You can leave your job if you have another income source to depend on. But if it is not, then you should practice bearing such a person as your boss.

I have gathered these tips based on my experiences with my boss. I don’t think all like this but the majority of people have problems with managing their office works. So let’s see how we can create our office the most favorable place to live. By making the office more favorable, we can have some peace inside us. That is called mental freedom. So this mental freedom will lead you to a future with Zero personal finance issues.

01. Be A Good Listener Around Your Boss. 

Most Company heads get angry if the work is incomplete. So in order to complete a task, understanding is a must. To understand anything, you have to listen to the explanation carefully, and then only you will be able to reach perfection. It is good if you can have a notebook to note down the works which your boss assign you. Then you will not forget them and one by one you can mark when the work is complete.

So I’m saying you do not want to fear your boss. Your fear is total because of the job. You can keep your respect as same If you have completed the works which your boss assigned you. This perfection is possible only if you listen to your boss carefully. So being a good listener is a perfect way to handle your rude boss.

02. Do Not Try To Fix Your Boss.

What is this about? I said, do not try to fix your boss. That means If your senior head is out of his mood on a certain day, do not get closer and do not try to fix his or her mood. If the boss comes to you and tries to talk with you, then answer the questions only do not ask him or her about the mood. If your boss is telling you about his problem, then give him some tips if only you can understand the situation. However, do not interfere with your boss asking about his or her problems.

I said this because, in any situation, some people do not like to share personal matters with anybody. If a person discusses anything with you, that means he or she tries to find a solution. Then your tips will be more valuable to that person, and also you can gain the trust of that person by providing some tips. Understanding human behavior is a huge subject. Even you know your boss very well; sometimes things can be worst. Because of trying to fix your boss, you may create a bad image about yourself inside your senior head’s mind. The final result will be a rude boss. So I’m saying that do not try to interfere.

03. Focus On Your Works And Stay Aligned With Your Values.

This is the most successful way to handle your rude boss. Highlight the part “align with your values.”If you are talented inside your job, then your boss will think twice to raise a finger against you. Any person does not want to get rid of a most wanted person. If you have a higher value in your company, that means your higher management is afraid to lose you. There are two reasons. One is they do not like to miss a talented person like you. Another reason is there. If you join a competitor company, it will be a huge loss for your boss as well as for your company.

Because of these reasons, they think twice about taking action against you. So from my point of view, this is the best thing you can develop as a career. Lots of benefits will reach you. So if your values are high, that means your stress will be less. Try to learn every inch of your work particles. Anyone working with you should be afraid to lose your talent. Develop your values, then dealing with your rude boss will be very easy.

04. Documentation.

Neat documentation is the best way to perfection. Try this. You can file every single document you use, even rough works. Then the probability of missing any work will be reduced. You don’t miss anything means no mistakes. So your boss will not have any reason to be rude. This is also the best way to deal with a rude boss. If you can maintain this habit, it also will be great to develop your career.

The point is not to miss any work. Documentation can help you with that. Be in the game always. Do not let your Boss blame you. So I think perfect documentation can make your job very interesting. Remember, it is more about making money than favor.

05. Dress Well.

You might come up with a question about how the dress has connected with the topic. Yes, there is a connection. It is all about the first impression. Think your boss arriving office with a problem. Then you are also standing in front of him or her with a terrible look. Then boss’s anger will boost up to a high level. Even you also would not like to see such a thing. So we need to create a lovely first impression. It will not only be good for your office it also will be suitable for your every work.

Because nothing can impress a person than a decent look, so if the boss is in an upset mood, this will reduce the anger even a little bit. So the advantage is for us.

What If Your Boss Is Not Responding Even For Above Tips.

If the relation between you and your boss is not going so well even, you tried the above tips, tolerate your best. If it is not working, you can try searching for another job because your financial stability is the most important thing. If it is so hard to deal with your rude boss, then you can search for options. But remember not to leave your job without a plan B. Because if you let your job to find a job then your financial status will go down and it will bring you stress. But if you are clever enough to have an option within the working period, then you win.

Another thing, do not say anything about your resignation to your boss or even to your colleagues until you hand over the letter. Because it is not gentle work to do, also, if the mission has gone wrong, then your status will be even more difficult. Because after that working with the boss will be a bad nightmare. I do not want to say why you can understand it. So I’m telling you that always keep a plan B.


If I tell you more about Salika Wijesinghe, I was a former General Insurance Analyst, a former customer service associate in a telecommunication network, Former customer service executive in a bank. Now I'm really very happy to share my knowledge with each and every one of you. Also, I represent a kind-hearted world community because I love helping people as well as animals. I hope my ideas are helpful, so you would find it easy to step forward in this life journey.


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